Feeling like your life’s been stuck on autopilot lately? That’s the universe telling you it’s time for a much-needed gaycation! But where to? That’s the million-dollar question. For us LGBTQ+ folk, the choice has never been as straightforward as it is for our heterosexual counterparts. It’s important for us to find a place where we feel welcomed, respected, and free to be ourselves. Enter Stockholm – a place that has long captured the hearts of queer travellers everywhere thanks to its rich culture and history, stunning scenery, and progressive attitudes that define it as the ‘Open City.’ Here are some of our top reasons why Stockholm is the ultimate gay travel destination.
1. Few places champion LGBTQ+ rights like Stockholm does
LGBTQ+ travellers know that one of the most important aspects of visiting any country is feeling safe and accepted. Sure, culture, food, and gorgeous views are all part of the package, but legal rights? They can make or break a trip. Fortunately, Sweden has been proudly flying the rainbow flag for decades, which is why you’ll find it’s capital, Stockholm, on every gay travel list. In fact, 2024 marked some pretty huge milestones for us: 80 years since the decriminalisation of homosexuality (that’s since 1944!), 15 years of marriage equality (since 2009), and 45 years since the groundbreaking “sick-in” protest, where Swedes called in sick to work to oppose the classification of homosexuality as a mental illness – iconic if you ask us!
2. The queer nightlife scene is always buzzing
Stockholm’s nightlife is alive and kicking, which is great news for those of you who love a good boogie. While most bars and clubs in general are LGBTQ+ friendly, there are a few that cater specifically to our community, ensuring we have more than enough options to let loose.
The city’s nightlife maestros, Pink Pig Productions and Clean Group, are renowned for organising some of the best parties in town. Head over to Blue Oyster Bar for some casual cocktails or hit Club Backdoor, dubbed “the best gay club north of Ibiza.” For lesbian travellers in Stockholm, Moxy hosts monthly parties and events in various venues across the city.
3. It’s the birthplace of ABBA – need we say more?
‘Gimme, Gimme, Gimme’ at a first Pride parade. A 3 a.m. kiss with ‘Fernando’ on a sticky nightclub dancefloor. A post-breakup shower performance of ‘The Winner Takes It All’: While the members of ABBA may not be a part of the queer community themselves, their music has certainly soundtracked some of the most defining moments in many of our queer lives. It is for this reason that Stockholm, the birthplace of the legendary band, becomes a pilgrimage site for countless LGBTQ+ travellers every year.
At the top of each of their itineraries you’ll find ABBA The Museum. Located on the island of Djurgården, this interactive museum lets you dive into the band’s history, try on some iconic costumes, and become the fifth ABBA member by performing alongside virtual members of the band. Don’t forget to pick up a souvenir or two from the gift shop on the way out!
4. Its safe and efficient public transport system makes getting around easy
Navigating unfamiliar territory can be a bit daunting, but Stockholm makes it as smooth as possible. The city’s public transportation system is clean, efficient, and incredibly safe. With an extensive network of underground trains (the T-bana), buses, commuter trains, and ferries, getting around is a cinch.
For those flying in, the Arlanda Express is a high-speed train that zips you from Stockholm Arlanda Airport to the city centre in just 18 minutes. It’s fast, eco-friendly, and sets the tone for a stress-free adventure.
5. The locals are super chill and open-minded
One of the best things about Stockholm is its people. While Swedes have a reputation for being a little reserved and keeping themselves to themselves, don’t let that discourage you. Once you strike up a conversation, Stockholmers are warm, friendly, and refreshingly open-minded. Their progressive attitudes also mean that LGBTQ+ travellers are welcomed with open arms.
A great way to get acquainted with Stockholm’s queer social scene and make new connections is to head to Mälarpaviljongen, an unapologetically queer floating restaurant and bar that’s always heaving during the summer months.
6. The dating scene is on fire
Let’s not beat around the bush. As much as we single gays love to visit a new city for the scenery and culture, a part of us also wants to check out the local dating scene.
You’ll be pleased to know that Stockholm is practically a playground of eligible singles who are ready to mingle. Whether you’re on the hunt for romance or just a little flirtation, you’ll find no shortage of charming, stylish men, women, and non-binary folk in the Swedish capital.
7. It’s seriously beautiful
Let’s talk about the scenery. Stockholm is, without a doubt, one of the most picturesque capitals in the world. Built on 14 islands and connected by 57 bridges, the city offers a stunning blend of architecture, greenery, and waterfront views. Whether you’re wandering through Gamla Stan, one of Europe’s best-preserved medieval centres, or admiring the grandeur of the Royal Palace, you’ll be constantly surrounded by beauty.
Be sure to carve out time to explore Djurgården, a lush green island often referred to as Stockholm’s “Green Lung.” It’s the perfect place to reconnect with nature without leaving the city.
8. There’s a superb selection of LGBTQ-welcoming hotels to choose from
Finding the right place to stay is a breeze in Stockholm, thanks to its wide range of LGBTQ+-friendly hotels. Whether you’re into boutique chic or sleek modern luxury, there’s a perfect spot for you.
For a stylish stay with a side of pop history, check into Hotel Rival, owned by ABBA’s very own Benny Andersson. Want something a little more contemporary? Nobis Hotel offers a design-forward experience that’s as sleek as it is comfortable. Whatever your style or budget, you’ll find a place to rest your head that feels like home.
Check out our curated list of LGBTQ+-friendly hotels that are perfect for your gay travel adventures in Stockholm.
9. It’s a foodie’s paradise
If the way to your heart is through your stomach, prepare to fall head over heels. From Michelin-starred restaurants to cosy bistros, Stockholm offers a delicious mix of traditional Swedish fare and global flavours. It’s no wonder it was named the European Capital of Gastronomy in 2023.
For a chic dining experience, head to Riche, or try The Hills, an LGBTQ-owned restaurant that serves up hearty, delicious dishes in a warm and welcoming atmosphere. Feeling fancy? ARIA, a two-star MICHELIN restaurant, will take your taste buds on an unforgettable journey.
Hungry for more? Take a look at this list of exquisite restaurants in the Swedish capital.
10. Stockholm is home to the biggest Pride celebration in Scandinavia
If you time your trip right, you’ll get to experience Stockholm Pride, the largest LGBTQ+ celebration in Scandinavia. What started as a small gathering in 1998 has grown into a massive event, attracting tens of thousands of participants and even more spectators. The week-long festivities include everything from concerts and parties to thought-provoking talks and, of course, the iconic Pride Parade, and the city’s stunning backdrop of waterways and green spaces makes it all the more magical.
For a gay travel experience in Stockholm that truly encapsulates the spirit of love, acceptance, and unbridled joy, there’s no better time to visit than during Pride.